If you have time to say some nonsense nonsense, it is better to sink your heart and do the things at hand, so that what you say is more valuable.
Not talking about words, it is a kind of education
Is there such a person around you, his mouth is more poisonous than a snake, and he says that he is just a straight man.
You bought a new dress, she said that the fat man in this dress is not good-looking, so that your good mood will come to an abrupt end;
The boyfriend gives you a gift, you see it as a treasure, but she said that it is worth a few dollars, not as good as her boyfriend;
When you are promoted and raised, she is sour and slick in the back, adding to you.
If you are not happy about this, she also said that you are stingy.
Good words, three winters, and bad words hurt people in June.
A mean word, it seems insignificant, sometimes it is more embarrassing than a knife, but it sweeps people's happiness, but it hurts people's hearts.
Remember, the poison tongue is not humor, but a mouthful; it is not straight, but not educated.
A well-educated person will definitely consider the feelings of others and make them comfortable.
When you are better than him, he does not say gossip; when he is better than you, he does not say anything big to show off; even if there is a misunderstanding between you, he will not say bad things that are unfounded.
Those who speak harshly will only become lonely people who are disgusted by everyone; those who speak comfortably can make more friends and gain more love.
Not easily promised, it is a kind of respect
《史记》There is an allusion: "It's better to get a gold jin, it's better to have a season."
It is a person named Ji Bu who has a letter and a letter. As long as he has promised something, he will do whatever he wants. His promise is worth more than gold.xx
Later, when I had a meal, I never called the two people.
People who are narrow-minded and short-sighted, like to argue with others.
They are arguing for a bite, and a little bit of sesame is going to hold on. I am not arrogant, I am unreasonable to stir up three points, and I have wasted a lot of time and energy, but I can’t argue for it.
Lincoln has said:
Anyone who is determined to achieve something will never spend time in private arguments. The results of the debate, including temper tantrums and loss of self-control, are unfortunately unaffordable. Instead of arguing with the dog, it is better to let it go first. Otherwise, even if you slaughter it, you can't cure the bite you are bitten.
Summer worms can't speak ice, and frogs can't speak the sea.
Never argue with people at different levels, because that will only consume you and make the other person call more.
People who know you don't have to argue; people who don't know you, it doesn't matter how to argue.
Not everyone is worthy of your explanation. Instead of trying to convince others, it is better to concentrate on yourself.
It’s wise to talk less,
I often hear people sigh, people are hard to measure, it is really difficult to be a man.
Just like my cousin, I just joined a company colleague after I graduated from work. They have dinner together and work overtime, almost nothing to talk about.
The cousin felt that her colleague was like a big sister and told her everything. My own love troubles, some opinions on leading colleagues, what to say when I think of something.
Unexpectedly, this colleague turned around and told these words to others.
The leader began to be cold to the cousin, and other colleagues often pointed to the cousin. In the end, the cousin was really unable to stay in the company and had to resign.